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Nina Hartley's Guide To Sex For the Bi-Curious Woman
from: Pacific Media Entertainment
Aspect Ratio: 1.33:1
Audience Rating: Unrated
Binding: DVD
EAN: 0799613134799
Format: Color, DVD-Video, NTSC
Label: Pacific Media Entertainment
Manufacturer: Pacific Media Entertainment
Number Of Items: 1
Publisher: Pacific Media Entertainment
Release Date: June 26, 2007
Running Time: 102 minutes
Studio: Pacific Media Entertainment
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Rating: - Fun...fun...fun!
This was a very informative DVD for those who are bicurious/bisexual, lesbian or even a man. Nina showed the steps to please a woman through kissing, touch and oral stimulation. All I can say is wow and I am so glad to have not been the model that she tormented. Tormented! Nina seemed to time her little talks just as the model was getting close to an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I am glad that Nina explained what she was doing. I throughly enjoyed this DVD.
Rating: - OMG - not just for women
Wow! Men and women alike can learn greatly from the techniques Nina teaches in this video. I considered myself somewhat advanced in the sex department, but not so much now. One thinks they know their own body, but Nina showed me even more! One knows what feels good to oneself, but understanding a bit more of the anatomy, the "why's", and the "how to's" helps your partner find those sweet spots everytime. This is a must see for everyone who wants to please a women. This is the best Nina video I have seen yet.
Rating: - Incredibly sexy! Great instruction, too
This was one of the sexiest (to watch) -- and most educational - videos from Nina Hartley I've seen lately. She appears with another porn actress (as her co-host) - a petite redhead - with whom she makes love to extensively. (Wow!)
The first half of this video was both -- out-of-this-world sexy - with great, real-world advice! Nina explains how the media is awash with girl/girl imagery (from advertising, she claims, without mentioning porn). More practically, she explains how fulfilling one's bi-sexual desires can often times be difficult - since women aren't used to taking the sexual initiative, and since women's libidos are much slower to get aroused (so seeing the changes in a woman's body - and seducing her - are much more difficult).
Her best advice is to not be afraid - and to be honest about one's desires (with another woman). Be up-front, she says -- in what one is seeking - in terms of sex and/or a relationship.
Nina thankfully reassures us that its natural to have same-sex fantasies. And having bi-curious desires - and even fulfilling them - won't make us into lesbians. The way to qualify (test) ourselves - is to understand the extent to which we fantasize about women - and men. So long as we don't imagine ourselves being with women exclusively --- we probably aren't going to become lesbians - just because we ultimately satisfy our desires to be with another babe.
She also admits - that many actresses enjoy being in the porn industry - for the easier access it provides for being intimate with other women (which is a motivation I had always suspected). Women make love to each other in porn - not because its required for a scene - but because its something they truly enjoy (which helped draw them to the profession in the first place). (The implication, of course -- is that if girls in porn enjoy being with themselves - you will too!)
In terms of actual instruction, she suggests that learning to make love to other women - starts off by learning to make love to one's self - through masturbation (which, in itself, is nothing new). She further adds, however, that women together - love to kiss!
She then instructs - and acts out - how to mix kissing and mutual (or self) masturbation as a great way to initiate one's own girl/girl love making (which I thought was fantastic advice - and a set of techniques which I had already used successfully in my own same-sex encounters). I've often wondered why other self-help books or DVD's - hadn't suggested this, as well. Nina, thank you - very much!
In one scene, she sits behind her red-headed partner as they exchange over-the-shoulder kisses - while one or both sets of hands -- explore the redhead's center (or her breasts).
As good as the kissing and mutual stimulation was - the oral sex was even better. Both girls are experts, and it was almost (frustratingly) hilarious to watch them demonstrate - while breaking numerous times -- to explain (verbally) what they're doing. Good oral sex technique, according to Nina, is more of a "sucking" and not just a "licking." She claims that if one can see your tongue while performing oral sex - then you're not really doing it right.
Now, I've never really watched myself giving oral sex to another babe. But I'm not sure if Nina's way - is the only way - to perform cunnilingus. But, in the video -- both Nina and her partner -- seem to be enjoying each other's pleasures, nonetheless.
Unfortunately, the second half of the video was much less entertaining to watch - and much less educational. Nina goes off at length in teaching us how to give our partner - a vaginal massage - which looked more like a laborious gynecological examination to me.
I think that Nina was too intent - in proving that our bodies are as sexually responsive as a man's - which, to me, misses the point.
Because we're more emotional, I think women enjoy the thought of making love to ourselves for both the physical - and the emotional enjoyment -- it will bring. That's what makes girl/girl loving so special.
(Making love to another woman - also makes us feel incredibly sexy. And few things in life are as indulgent - as having another babe giving you oral sex!)
Ladies, if you have same-sex yearnings, "Nina Hartley's Guide to Sex for the Bi Curious Woman" may get you one step closer to fulfillment. Even if it doesn't, it's great fun to watch (for both men and women). Enjoy.
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